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Love Her or Lose Her

by Tessa Bailey · Hot & Hammered #2

2020 · 336 pages

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💬 Mentioned in 10+ Reddit threads

📖 92k+ readers on Goodreads

📚 Book 2 of a completed 3-book series

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When high school sweethearts Rosie and Dominic hit a wall after a decade of marriage, she's ready to fight for what they've lost—and she's dragging her reluctant, emotionally-guarded ex-soldier husband to relationship boot camp whether he likes it or not. What starts as Rosie's desperate attempt to save their marriage becomes unexpectedly transformative as Dom actually commits to the work, and they both begin discovering what rekindling real intimacy actually means. Watching these two navigate ridiculous exercises, honest conversations, and the messy vulnerability of falling back in love is both hilarious and deeply touching. But just when they're finally getting their spark back, a secret threatens to shake the foundation they've so carefully rebuilt—because sometimes the real work of a marriage happens after the hard conversations.

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